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Intimate Marriages Are Happy Marriages
Ice-Breaker: Explain how one example of intimacy influenced your life while growing up.

Proverbs 5: 18Be happy with the wife you married when you were young. 19She is beautiful and graceful, just like a deer; you should be attracted to her and stay deeply in love. (CEV)
1. How does intimate and faithful love in marriage help you to be thankful and serve Christ?

1 Corinthians 13: 4Love is kind and patient, never jealous, boastful, proud, or 5rude. Love isn't selfish or quick tempered. It doesn't keep a record of wrongs that others do. 6Love rejoices in the truth, but not in evil. 7Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting. 8Love never fails! (CEV)
2. Why does God in the Scriptures always stress the importance of attitudes over rules?

Colossians 3: 8.... You must quit being angry, hateful, and evil. You must no longer say insulting or cruel things about others.... 12God loves you and has chosen you as his own special people. So be gentle, kind, humble, meek, and patient.... 15Each one of you is part of the body of Christ, and you were chosen to live together in peace. So let the peace that comes from Christ control your thoughts. And be grateful....  (CEV)
3. What makes such a big difference in intimacy between attitudes of love and hate?

1 Peter 3: 4Be beautiful in your heart by being gentle and quiet. This kind of beauty will last, and God considers it very special.... 9Don't be hateful and insult people just because they are hateful and insult you. Instead, treat everyone with kindness. You are God's chosen ones.... Ephesians 4:2Always be humble and gentle. Patiently put up with each other and love each other. (CEV)
4. When we try hard to be intimate with others, how do kindness & humility help?

Mark 7: 21Out of your heart come evil thoughts, vulgar deeds, stealing, murder, 22unfaithfulness in marriage, greed, meanness, deceit, indecency, envy, insults, pride, and foolishness. (CEV)
Proverbs 17: 9You will keep your friends if you forgive them, but you will lose your friends if you keep talking about what they did wrong. (CEV)
5. Describe what happens when someone intimate criticizes every little thing that you do.

Romans 14: 1Welcome all the LORD'S followers, even those whose faith is weak. Don't criticize them for having beliefs that are different from yours.... 3But you should not criticize others for eating or for not eating. After all, God welcomes everyone. 4What right do you have to criticize someone else's servants? Only their Lord can decide if they are doing right, and the Lord will make sure that they do right. John 7: 24Don't judge by appearances. Judge by what is right. James 5: 9Don't grumble about each other or you will be judged, and the judge is right outside the door. (CEV)
6. Judging is a very serious practice with God. Explain why we need to judge very carefully.

Please study the above references and then add your observations and applications:
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